A few years ago I read a book by Dr. Rushworth Kidder titled How Good People Make Tough Decisions: Resolving the Conflicts of Ethical Living and I have found it very helpful in my role as Head of the Household. In the beginning of the book Dr. Kidder states, what should be obvious to everyone, […]
Forms of DisciplineForms of Discipline
When a person thinks about punishing their wife the first thing that they usually think of is the old fashioned method – spanking. This is not the only form of discipline you can use though and sometimes it is the wrong method. The method and severity you use should fit the offense. Just like you […]
Common Criticisms of Power Exchange (including Domestic Discipline) RelationshipsCommon Criticisms of Power Exchange (including Domestic Discipline) Relationships
Occasionally, you will meet people who condemn your lifestyle. The reasons they give you will vary but will ultimately boil down to a handful of reasons. In this article, I will cover the most common reasons and provide ways you can respond to them. 1. “You are Oppressing Your Wife” One of the most common […]
What is Domestic Discipline?What is Domestic Discipline?
Domestic Discipline (DD) is a type of Total Power Exchange (TPE) relationship, in which one partner takes on the role as Head of the Household (HoH) and the other partner takes on a submissive role and is referred to as the “taken in hand” (tih). Typically, DD relationships are modeled after a 1950s style marriage […]
Rules Matter!Rules Matter!
A fundamental aspect of a domestic discipline relationship is the setting of rules for your wife. After all, you cannot discipline someone if you haven’t provided rules that they must follow. If you haven’t set rules, then there is no way that your wife can follow you or obey you. When you set rules you […]
Maintenance SpankingsMaintenance Spankings
A maintenance spanking is a spanking given with the intent to reinforce the roles within the relationship. They can also be used to deal with minor behavioral issues and mistakes that are not severe enough to warrant you punishing your wife. These spankings are a powerful tool available to you. Unlike punishment, therapy, and play […]
Disciplining Your WifeDisciplining Your Wife
As the head of the household you will need to discipline your wife at times. She is not perfect, she is human after all, so she will do something that requires you to punish her. When the need arises, it should be a very simple decision to make since it is what you both agreed […]
Traits of a Good Head of Household (HoH)Traits of a Good Head of Household (HoH)
In a Domestic Discipline (DD) relationship, the dominant partner is referred to as the Head of the Household (HoH) and responsible providing for, protecting his family, and leading his family in the right direction to ensure that everyone becomes the best person they can be and that the family has the best life possible.